Your 20-page "Compatibility Forecast" report
will compare both of your personalities and help you decide
if this person is right for you! Whether
you found your current love interest through friends, an online
dating site or a dating match service, "Compatibility
Forecast" lets
you look into the future. Take MindFrames and your "Compatibility
Forecast" report will reveal the potential in your relationship
for:
- HARMONY – Learn how you and your dating partner are alike—the
personality traits that help you connect easily.
- ENRICHMENT – Discover which traits are strong for one and
only somewhat less emphasized by the other—differences
that can enrich the dating relationship.
- CONFLICT – Identify the traits that are strong for one
and uncomfortable for the other—differences that
can lead to tension, misunderstandings and disagreements
in your dating relationship.
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Discover what the future holds for your love relationship!
"With
the help of our Compatibility Forecast report, our friendship-turned-romance
has continued to prosper in a manner better then I’d
have hoped. The report was quite accurate in outlining how
well our personalities are suited to each other—our forecast
was Excellent! Not only did I learn about all the ways our
personalities are alike, but also how she brings strengths
to our relationship that I don’t have. Everyone we meet—teachers,
parents, all my crazy psychologist friends—they all are
amazed at how well and easily we communicate and get along.
I explain that it’s in part because of Compatibility
Forecast. Not only did we learn how best to communicate with
each other, the most important foundation for any successful
relationship, we also learned more about ourselves and the
personal strengths we each contribute to the relationship."
- Tyler, college student, Grand Rapids, MI
by Dennis E. Coates,
Ph.D.
Author of MindFrames and "Thin
from Within"
Denny
Coates |
Is your current
love interest your soul mate? Twenty, thirty, forty years
from now…will
both of you still feel passion for each other? Will you
still love being with each other? Will the relationship
continue to enrich both of you indefinitely? Perhaps!
Two people may be compatible—or incompatible—in
many ways. What do you and your dating partner have in
common? Do you have significant differences in education,
career, money, cultural background, lifestyle, sexual preferences,
family, friends, values, beliefs and personality?
Have you found your true love? Two
people don’t
have to have the same personalities to be compatible. In
fact, love flourishes when two people are both similar
and different. Any couple can create a close, loving relationship,
regardless of their differences. It’s just a lot
easier when there’s ample common ground, interesting
differences that enrich the dating partnership, and no
dramatic differences that threaten conflict. |
Personality differences can enrich a dating
relationship. Because both people aren’t totally alike,
they can bring new kinds of strength and joy to each other. But
if differences are dramatic, it may be harder to accept, affirm,
love and cherish what’s different about the other person.
Harmony. Personality similarities can benefit a dating relationship because
they make harmony so easy. When two people have similar characteristics,
they often think, say and do similar things. When this happens,
the relationship feels comfortable. The couple feels they truly
understand each other—as if they were "soul mates."
When dating partners have similar comfort
zones, the mindframes they share in common will seem familiar
to both, and they’ll
use them frequently. This commonality can benefit a love relationship
because there will be fewer surprises. Communicating with each
other will often seem effortless.
Enrichment. When someone says, "he’s good for me" or "when
I’m with her, I’m a whole person," it often
means that the dating partners appreciate each other’s
differences. In a love relationship, two people don’t always
think or act the same way. When dating partners bring different
patterns and perspectives to a relationship, the differences
don’t have to be frustrating. They can lead to a more interesting
dating experience. One person brings something valuable to the
relationship that the other person doesn’t. One person
is strong in a way that the other isn’t.
When personality differences aren’t too extreme, dating
partners will find it fairly easy to reach out with patience
and understanding to accept, value, love and affirm what’s
unique about the other person. In this way, a couple can be enriched
by what might otherwise be a potential area of conflict. Love
grows—not in spite of the differences, but because of them.
The couple discovers new ways to experience love, fulfillment
and happiness.
Conflict. Personality differences come into play every time two people
are together. These can benefit a love relationship, if the differences
are relatively minor. But when differences are extreme, personalities
can clash. Unfamiliar and unexpected behavior can trigger misunderstanding,
disappointment, impatience and irritation. Dating partners may
avoid conflict by reaching out every day with patience and understanding
to accept, value and affirm the other person’s strengths.
Everything depends on the attitudes of
the dating partners and whether they’re willing to stretch on a regular basis.
This can be difficult if one person uses a particular mindframe
a lot, and the other person uses it rarely. The gap may be so
wide and occur so often that it’s hard to see the difference
as a valuable, beneficial aspect of a love relationship.
Compatibility Forecast. You may have special
feelings for the person you’re dating. You’re interested
enough to maintain contact, but do you want to invest more
of yourself in the relationship? Do you want to take the next
step? Do you want to exchange phone numbers? Meet in person?
Continue dating and spending time together growing a friendship
and exploring love? Become intimate? Move in? Get married?
Taking steps toward a more intimate love relationship means
investing time, feelings and personal resources. Is your friend
The One? Is this person worth the risk that in the end the relationship
may not work out?
You don’t have to invest months or years in the relationship
to find out. "Compatibility Forecast" outlines the
personality similarities and differences between you and your
dating partner and how they affect the potential for harmony,
enrichment and conflict. You can discover the common ground between
you right now, up front in the relationship. These insights will
help you decide whether you welcome the similarities and whether
you believe you will be enriched by the differences.
You can decide now that this person is a potential long-term
love interest. Or you can decide that trying to find love in
this relationship is too far to go.
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here NOW to get your personalized "Compatility Forecast."
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